How Do I Organize My Micro Wedding (vs Full Wedding)?

A wedding does not to be extravagant.

Personally, I went for a simple wedding at a golf clubhouse that provides a unique scenic view of greenery to the guests.

How to organize a micro wedding a full wedding, a micro wedding should focus on what really matters to you and your spouse, while meeting your budget and timing constraints. Organizing a micro wedding set lower expectations from others on the grandness while making it an intimate wedding. 

I had no regrets about my simple wedding because we are simple people and our families do not require anything special. Below is a simple comparison between traditional weddings and micro weddings for you to consider what you need to prepare for your micro wedding.

Comparison Traditional Wedding Micro Wedding
Theme Depends can be elaborate, long-drawn (for a couple to meet or take a photo with all) Intimate with special touches
Guest List Friends, Families, Relatives of families, and extended families Limited to Close family and friends
Price Expensive Affordable
Wedding Venue Limited to a bigger venue like a hotel room Flexible, given the small guest list
Wedding Cake Included, sometimes as a mock cake for ceremony cutting since few eat wedding cake now Not required at all
Wedding Car Yes, usually part of package Can ask from friends with simple decoration  
Food Expected, with a few courses Good to have, but not necessary
Wedding Photos Specialized photographer and videographer for the day Not required, can be your sibling or friend
Personalized Invitation Cards Unlikely and just printed in bulk Possible since guest list are small but not necessary
Time required to Organize Months of work without a wedding planner to coordinate all parties Minimal, compared to traditional wedding

Based on brides.com, you can expect the cost of a micro wedding to be over 50 percent less than that of a traditional wedding with the highest end of the range falling at around $10,000.

How do I plan a small wedding fast

The fastest marriage to plan a small wedding is to

  • Decide on the bare minimal guest list both you and your spouse can accept. You need to know how many guests are expected when you look for a venue. As limiting guests are difficult because everyone is good to have, you could try to categorize them into "Must-have" (e.g. family and perhaps closest friends). The rest will be either "Good-To-Have" (e.g. existing colleagues, friends) and Maybe (e.g. ex-colleagues, acquaintances) and it is normal to keep changing the list as you discussed on the suitability or compare with your spouse.
  • Choose your preferred timing. A noon timing is easier if you do not have many events to in the morning (e.g. some loved gate-crashing or traditional formality that parent requires). A night wedding usually leaves more time for the formalities but little time for you and your spouse at end of the day.
  • Find a micro wedding venue that had previous experience in organizing events (this will co than choosing a location and decorating yourself, but really save you lots of time and effort in getting the venue decoration). The venue must cater to your must-have guest list minimally.
  • Ensure the venue allow flexibility if you are charged per person (e.g. due to catering food). Guests who confirmed but cannot make it on the actual day for various reasons (e.g. emergency, sickness) will always happen. The venue should allow finalizing the list as late as the day before (if they are charging you food on a personal basis).
  • Use a Google Form to collect the RSVP of your guests if it exceeds 30. This will save you time tallying the confirmed guest list. 
  • Find friends for help (e.g. take photograph on your actual day, design invitation cards, borrowing a wedding car and getting it decorated, logistic car for moving things will be useful too). You will be surprised by how helpful people are even if you are not close to them. People really want you to have a blissful marriage and don't mind helping when asked.

In terms of formality, marriage is just a marriage license with the signatures of you and your spouse and various parties like officiant or witnesses (although a few states allow common-law marriage without documents). 

However, the law of different states differs greatly. Many states require 1 to 6 days to pass between the granting of the license and the marriage ceremony. Some required the officiant or couple then files for a certified copy of the marriage license and a marriage certificate with the appropriate authority. Some states also have a requirement that a license is filed within a certain time after its issuance, typically 30 or 60 days, following which a new license must be obtained.

Remember that wedding is the start of the journey, not the end.


Efforts have been made to get the information as accurate and updated as possible. If you found any incorrect information with credible source, please send it via the contact us form

Sky Hoon
He is happily married and have 1 child. He went through the pre marriage counseling and found it useful and wished to share to others in their marriages


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